Gay dating advice column

In this new blog series I offer strategies and advice for anyone navigating the marvelous, messy and often fucked-up dilemmas we face in our quests for intimacy, both online and off.

Dear MISTER CARL, My boyfriend and I have been in a monogamous relationship together for three years.

I met my ex-boyfriend while living abroad and, according to him, it was love at first sight.

Everything went wrong when we moved in with his parents.

I would like to be able to have a conversation with him again.What if Dear Prudence is the Penthouse Letters of tongue-clucking suburbanites?were wondering if the Ethicist stole a letter from the Social Qs column that runs in the Sunday Styles—after all, they printed the same question this week that appeared in the Styles in September.I just want to be able to be in peace and somehow let him know I loved him with everything in me.The thing is we met the last five days of his exchange program and in the little time we spent together, I felt like we connected really well.